kendy’s scribbles

Temptations of the Single Girl
(my comments and reactions hehehe, a book by Nina Atwood)

1.Temptation of denying your true desires
        -uhmmm i guess we girls should be clear on what we want..we are tempted to hang on relationships that is far from what we truly desire, a relationship based on love and commitment..hay ug ngano man gud lagi musettle bah!

2. Temptation of loving a wounded guy
        -hagoi girls learn to recognize these guys..hahaha u want signs??? according to the book he’s the one you fall for because he seems so disarming, so attractive, and so vulnerable on some level. Your loving heart is drawn to him more and more as he shares his life struggles. You want to believe that your love will heal him, draw him into a commitment that he’s been unable to give other women before you….Unya bayot..mutuo ka lugar hahaha wounded guys will give a million excuses to justify their fear of commitment..they will crumble in the sight of commitment hahahaha busa mga indai,ayaw nlang sugdi!!!! asuuus kinsai guilty,raise ur hand..

3. Temptation of dating without integrity
        -kini heavy rasad kaayo..dating without integrity??? actually mag muni muni sa ko ani..kai sobra rasad bah..mangita sa ko hard copy sa libro para ako masabtan jud..k! pero dli nalang cguro padayunun bah if inana walai integrity najud..tanga ka rasad if nahan kag inani oi hehehehe

4. Temptation of choosing high risk relationships
        -cguro naay uban gaka excite ug inani..high risk..like uhmm dli nlang ko expound sensitive ra kaayo ang topic..kana bitaw bawal na relasyon..nah ang theme song ninyu Bakit ngayon ka lang ug Bukas nlang kita mamahalin..hastang paeta..dli sad natu ma blame kung in lab sad..haaayyy but u know it goes to back to what u truly desire dba, a loving,PEACEFUL relationship dli nah tago tago..uhmmm i said too much hahahaha

5. Temptation of getting sexual too soon
        -uhmmmmmmmmmmm bah!..when is too soon??? is 2 months too soon? hahahaha joke! mas chada man gyud youll get to know each other in a deeper way than that dba..ayaw pud cguro weeks oi..its nice that u will be appreciated not because ur good in bed but because u have a good heart..naay nag protesta pwd ba daw both? hahahaha toink

6. Temptation of rushing into relationships
        -masinahon man so bahalag 3 days pa manguyab yes dretso para machange lang ang status sa friendster hahahahaha di cguro tah maginani bah..ngilngig!Great relationships come to those who wait and while you wait..you…pray! hahaha abi ninyu unsa noh hihi gichange nako kai mapangka joke!

7. Temptation of settling for less
        -we should love ourselves enough to recognize that all we deserve is the best. we should not get desperate just to hold on to people and relationships that wont really make us happy. aba aba serious nako haha i think thats why i dont get too affected on whatever semi-relations (take note semi and dli relationship haha whatever)i have now coz i know i deserve the best..i dont want to settle..i dont want to put all my hopes to people who will give me less than the best..

8. Temptation of taking the lead
        -sa tanan mga indai dont put matters into your hands..hahaha ngil-ad kaayo manguna mang!! women empowerment lugar no way..aw ambot it may work for others but u know allow the guy to take the lead..dli kai tungod respeto nlang yikes! gusto mo ana,napugos lang hahahaha di maayo nah tilimad-un mang..hahahaha

9. Temptation of aiming for the fairy tale
        -while we desire for true love dli pud cguro tah palabi mag imagine hehehe should we believe in happy ever after?? uhmm ok raman but know that it wont be easy to achieve and maintain that happy ever after..it takes work,effort and lot of sacrifices..i still believe in it though..i still do..

10. Temptations of sacrificing her authentic voice
        -never lose yourself..dont allow that to happen…listen to your self and never allow anyone to silence that voice in you..u may have fallen so many times but kita man cguro tanan diba..hehehe hay naku..its great to be single..lets enjoy every minute of it..temptations come but learn to say no..kung dli mapunggan uhmmm ayaw pirmanenteha sad oi hahahaha btaw girls lets learn to value ourselves and at the same time have fun..we wont be single forever..Bye!

Last friday night or shall i say saturday dawn i got drunk..it wasnt just margarita but na mix nah coz i drank other cocktails after that OIC session..its been quite awhile since my last session (last mon and wed haha MWF) hehe hay basta the point is hubog ko..i made a fool of myself..saba kaayo ko..shit..its too late for a disclaimer damn i feel so ashamed..uhmmm but u know ive beaten myself to the max for the weekend and i think enough nah..its time to forgive myself and move on hahaha bah?! i mean looking back ive always made wise,good decisions,it wont hurt if i make stupid decisions sometimes hahahaha hay..but i made a promise to myself i will do everything in my power not to be in that state again hahaha

just discovered from our guard,Rex this morning,that Big R guards were supposed to call the police to reprimand us…sheeett,imagine my reaction seeing the police patrol waaahhhhhh dli jud ko makarecover for a month hehehehe but thank you to my Rex,he told the guard not to call the police coz he knows me and amo pajud daw ko niya hahahahaha Big thank you to you Rex..ur my HERO!!!

i can say i kinda envy some of my friends who have this amazing talent in blogging..they express themselves very well and their wit and sense of humor are awesome..teach me will you? hehehe pero cguro either ur born with it or not so pacencya nalang ko hahahaha

there are some who youll get to know much deeper through their blogs..you’ll get to appreciate their views on things,how sensitive and loving they are and how funny they can be..reading it is like watching a funny sitcom on starworld hihihihi

nyway,la lang lazy sunday morning haaaayyyy lunch time got to go,hamonada baby hahaha!!!!

by the way, doi im a fan..keep blogging hehehehe

Why mommy? Someone asked that question to one of my bestfriends last december.. he was wondering why everyone seems to call me that. Well it got me thinking..after 12 years..y the hell is everybody calling me mommy??? Hihi I mean well it started as a joke in the barkada..but after 12 years men,like even the college classmates of my barkada calls me mommy and even the moms of my friends call me that. Kinda weird really,tita josie (min2s mom) call me momy kendi everytime i visit her in BIR..hihi In high school, there were other versions of that,calai and lou calls me mamardz,caryll calls me mamu and i forgot what charmaine padla and maureen calls me,basta its another motherly endearment. Hahaha am I really that motherly in their eyes??? Shucks! And oh not to mention the boys of my barkada (that includes the past, present and the future) who of course calls me mommy! Hay naku,mga sipsip gud tawon! There was one time we were in a boutique my partner in crime kakang calls me MAMA in front of the salesladies and boy they were all looking at me  wondering huh mama niya? we went out laughing coz these people were looking at me with prying eyes(unsa kaha cya edad na buros)hahahaha..Going back to the scene..Well one of my barkada answered the guy who blurted that question (wonder who Im referring to? hihi) she said well shes mommy coz she takes care of everyone. Aaaaw,na touch ko hihi really? i mean if thats the case,i would love to be called mommy for the rest of my life hihi drama! I just love taking care and being there for my girls. Evreytime they need someone to talk to, if they want my opinions on things.. if they need to share a secret ..talking sense into them and being their konsencya (safeguard) hehe..and u know laughing with them while reminiscing our escapades..analyzing shout outs and reconstructing them hihi..comparing sizes and shapes hahaha..getting drunk on Valentines day till we get heart palpitations..going to "caves" (!?!?) together hahaha(dli ko magsaba kinsa ako giubanan ha,chaperon lang tawon ko,yaya tigtrapo sa singot haha)…visualizing and praying for a miracle (remember sa site nut hihi)..secret YM conferences (nanlibak)..crying over spilled milk (naks)..recognizing a true player from a fake one (kani maayo kaayo ko ani haha victim baya pirminti haha)..keeping their secret list of victims dba kang (this is my hardest role so far bai)..Hihihi etc etc etc So being a mommy is not bad after all..its priceless…

PS

Kang someone else is calling me MOTHER dli lang ikaw,kani atung amigo na pirmi nato ka chat hahaha. Hindi kana nagiisa anak..hihi

I will be the answer
At the end of the line
I will be there for you
While you take the time
In the burning of uncertainty
I will be your solid ground
I will hold the balance
If you can’t look down

When the stars have all burned out
You’ll still be burning so bright…

I don’t know you
But I want you
All the more for that
Words fall through me
And always fool me
And I can’t react
And games that never amount
To more than they’re meant
Will play themselves out

Falling slowly sing your melody
I’ll sing along..